12 Sep Who Gives a Fu** About Those Refugees
JUAN SAYS: We found this post on facebook and made us think deeper about the Syrians and our very own Lumads. Surely we care more about the traffic and the #Aldub sensation that has caught the country by storm, but we wouldn’t care about those who are losing their lives because of war, because of poverty, because of land issues. We just don’t care because it is not happening to us, nor does it directly affect us. But if we take the time, like we did, to read this story and put our selves in the shoes of the refugees and the Lumads, maybe we will start caring.
by Abdeirahman Dameen
You’re 29 years old with a wife, two children and a job. You have enough money, and can afford a few nice things, and you live in a small house in the city. Suddenly the political situation in your country changes and a few months later soldiers are gathered in front of your house. And in front of your neighbors’ houses. They say that if you don’t fight for them, they will shoot you. Your neighbor refuses. One shot. That’s it.
You overhear one of the soldiers telling your wife to spread her legs. Somehow you get rid of the soldiers and spend the night deep in thought. Suddenly you hear an explosion. Your house no longer has a living room. You run outside and see that the whole street is destroyed. Nothing is left standing. You take your family back into the house, and then you run to your parents’ house. It is no longer there. Nor are your parents. You look around and find an arm with your Mother’s ring on its finger. You can’t find any other sign of your parents.
“But asylum seekers have so many luxury goods! Smartphones, and designer clothes!”
You immediately forget it. You rush home, and tell your wife to get the children dressed. You grab a small bag, because anything bigger will be impossible to carry for a long time, and in it you pack essentials. Only 2 pieces of clothing each can fit in the bag.
What do you take? You will probably never see your home country again.
Not your family, not your neighbors, your workmates. But how can you stay in contact?
You hastily throw your smartphone and the charger in the bag.
Along with the few clothes, some bread and your small daughters favorite teddy.
“They can easily afford to get away. They aren’t poor!”
Because you could see the emergency coming, you have already scraped all your money together. You managed to save some money because of your well paid job. The kind people smuggler in the neighborhood charges 5,000 euros per person. You have 15,000 euros. With a bit of luck, you’ll all be able to go. If not, you will have to let your wife go. You love her and pray that you the smugglers will take you all. By now you are totally wiped out and have nothing else. Just your family and the bag. The journey to the border takes two weeks on foot. You are hungry and for the last week have barely eaten. You are weak, as is your wife. But at least the children have enough. They have cried for the whole 2 weeks. Half the time you have to carry your younger daughter. She is only 21 months old. A further 2 weeks and you arrive at sea.
In the middle of the night you’re loaded onto a ship with other refugees. You are lucky: your whole family can travel. The ship is so full that it threatens to capsize. You pray that you don’t drown. The people around you are crying and screaming. A few small children have died of thirst. The smugglers throw them overboard. Your wife sits, vacantly, in a corner. She hasn’t had anything to drink for 2 days. When the coast is in sight, you are loaded onto small boats. Your wife and the younger child are on one, you and your older child are on another. You are warned to stay silent so that nobody knows you’re there. Your older daughter understands. But your younger one in the other boat doesn’t. She doesn’t stop crying. The other refugees are getting nervous. They demand that your wife keeps the child quiet. She doesn’t manage it. One of the men grabs your daughter, rips her away from your wife and throws her overboard. You jump in after her, but you can’t find her again. Never again. In 3 months she would have turned 2 years old.
Isn’t that enough for you? They still have it too good here and have everything handed to them on a plate?
You don’t know how you, your wife and your older daughter manage to get to the country that takes you in. It’s as though everything is all foggy. Your wife hasn’t spoken a word since your daughter died. Your older daughter hasn’t let go of her sister’s teddy and is totally apathetic. But you have to keep going. You are just about to arrive at the emergency accommodation. It is 10pm. A man whose language you don’t understand takes you to a hall with camp beds. There are 500 beds all very close together. In the hall it’s stuffy and loud. You try to get your bearings, to understand what the people there want from you. But in reality you can barely stand up. You nearly wish that they had shot you. Instead you unpack your meager possessions: two items of clothing each and your smartphone. Then you spend your first night in a safe country. The next morning you’re given some clothes. Among the donated clothes are even branded ‘label’ clothes. And a toy for your daughter. You are given 140 euros. For the whole month.
”They’re safe here. Therefore they should be happy!”
Outside in the yard, dressed in your new clothes, you hold your smartphone high in the air and hope to have some reception. You need to know if anyone from your city is still alive. Then a ‘concerned citizen‘ comes by and abuses you. You don’t know why. You don’t understand “Go back to your own country!” You understand some things like “smartphone” and “handed everything on a plate.” Somebody translates it for you.
And now tell me how you feel and what you own? The answer to both parts of that is “Nothing.”