11 Oct Dear Women, Love Men
JUAN SAYS: It has become a fad, posting selfies to solicit likes and reactions on social networking sites. Many women have gone over board, posting nearly nude and lewd photos of themselves just because. Yet many cry foul when men do not take them seriously. We have always believed in your freedom to be yourself. But it is with the same belief that we too can choose how to view you. The shallowness of your posts, be it in pictures or words show the kind of person you are. Yes, we are judgmental that way. And who gives a fuck anyways?
There is one thing I want you to understand about us MEN.
When you post half- naked pictures of yourself on Facebook, doing a sexy pose, or showing us your boobs or lying seductively on your bed… The only thing you are doing is making us feel lust about you
I know you will feel excited about the 500 Likes, 120 sweet comments and countless inbox messages you will receive and you will feel so high more so to be on top of the world. BUT ONE IMPORTANT THING YOU SHOULD KNOW, in reality, none of those guys who will like and comment on your photo or send you messages in your inbox loves you. They are just lusting about using and dumping you. In fact they hate you because none of them would take you home to be his wife. Trust me they take you as a whore, looking for cheap popularity on facebook.
Men whether rich or poor admire ladies who dress decently and respect themselves. Decent clothing that reveals less about your body makes us love and respect you. It tells us that you are a virtuous woman and a wife material one would take home to be a mother. It tells us how you were brought up morally and gives us details about your good family background.
We don’t really care a lot about your excessive make-up and face paintings?? A good wife material remains no matter what.
Value your body. Be real and respect yourself.
And a good man who will respect you will find you whatsoever.